Should jelentése: ‘Should’ vagy ‘Must’? Hogyan adj tanácsot?

Should vagy must. Should jelentése – videó leirat:

Hello.
Look at this man. Has he got any money? No has not. He is broke. He has got no money he’s broke now. This man is my friend. And I want to help my friend. I want to help my friend and one day I meet my friend and I tell him:
Hey Greg. You should buy a suit. And you should go on a job interview. You should find a job.
So Greg and I are friends. I wanted to help him, so I tell him: Greg you should find a job. You should.
I do not say you must. Must is very strong. A teacher tells the students: you must do the homework. You must open your book. And I am not Greg’s teacher. I’m not Greg’s boss. I’m not Greg’s father, so I do not say you must.
I want to help. You should. You should find a job. You should buy a suit. You should go on a job interview. On the job interview you should smile. You should smile non-stop.
And after the job interview when you get the job you should work hard.

Now let’s look at another situation. This man is a smoker, he smokes a lot. He smokes a lot of cigarettes and of course he has got problems. Health problems, he coughs a lot. He coughs a lot and it’s not good. It’s not healthy. When you’re healthy, you’re fit, but coughing is not healthy.
When you cough, you are not fit, you are not healthy. So smoking cigarettes is not healthy. It’s not good for you.
Now he’s my friend and I want to help my friend. So I tell my friend, hey Steve you should stop smoking. You should stop smoking, you shouldn’t smoke cigarettes at all, none.
Steve is my friend, I’m not a boss, so I do not say: you mustn’t smoke a cigarette.
Okay mustn’t is very strong and I am not his father, so I do not say: you mustn’t and I’m not
his teacher, I do not say: you mustn’t smoke in the school. I tell my friend: you shouldn’t smoke, you should stop smoking and you should go hiking. You should go hiking in the mountains, because it’s healthy, it makes you fit and the air is fresh.
The air is fresh and it’s good for the health, you should stop smoking, you should go hiking in the mountains. You should go riding the bicycle. You should ride the bicycle every day, because riding the bicycle, hiking in the mountains are healthy, they make you fit.
You should hike. You should ride a bicycle.

But look at this girl. She is a little bit overweight, so this girl is a bit overweight. And she’s not happy with that. She wants to change. She wants to do something.
Because she’s my friend I tell her Julie you should stop eating junk food. Junk food is bad food like McDonald’s hamburgers they are junk. Ice-cream, coke. Coke is junk. Popcorn, popcorn is junk. There aren’t enough nutrients in it. Nutrients like proteins vitamins, minerals. So junk food is not healthy so, Julie you shouldn’t eat junk food. You should eat healthy food. A healthy food is nutritious. Nutritious food is full of nutrients protein, minerals, vitamins.
And Julie you should do exercises every day. You should do physical exercises every day.
You should do sports. You should do sports.
July is my friend, I’m not her boss so I do not say you must. That’s too strong. I’m not a teacher so I do not say, you must do exercises every day. No, because I’m not a teacher. I can’t say it because we are friends, I say you should do exercise every day. I want to help her.
And you should have a good diet. A good diet. In this picture the diet is bad: junk food, pizza, french fries and so on. But Judy you should have a good diet, healthy nutritious diet.
Great and now go to the next video.